September, 2009 - Mistress Katherine - Dominatrix and Kinky Life Coach

Sitting here, enjoying the sunshine and posting about pervy things. Life is good.

Quick rundown of all the fun stuff from last week.

Things got off to a very inspiring start on Monday as I reconnected with a playmate who I hadn’t seen in many many months. He’s kept me updated on all the wonderful, though very difficult, personal work he’s been doing, through email, and we’ve had a couple of hang-outs. But the one thing we hadn’t revisited was playtime. Part of all the personal work he’s been doing was set in motion by an extremely intense, catharsis-based, medical scene we did. Since then he’s been a bit gun shy about BDSM and the part it plays in his life. Well Monday after 2 or so hours of quality catch up, and no small amount of theorizing on what kink may mean/do to him at this point in his process, we stripped him down and smacked him around for awhile.

Now I’ve always enjoyed my time with this boy. He is smart, responsive, very maoschistic, and just all ’round adorable. Our play, baring the medical scene, has usually involved strong sensation and lots of silly and sexy energy. But things have shifted in his world and mine since then and what emerged was something all together new and, well, beautiful. It’s not that the level we reached wasn’t possible before, it just wasn’t the right time and place for it till now. Folks who refuse to believe that such activities can have value beyond just having a kinky good time can kiss my pervy and proud ass.

Tuesday got together with Servant and laid down a couple more MPS tracks and got into a bit of nakid mischief. Got to love how he takes care of talent services. I’m getting more comfortable with this medium but REALLY need to start writing some of my own scripts. That is the task for today after this update. Looks like he’s in the midst of a site update so expect a view delays and navigation issues: http://kinkymp3files.com/

Wednesday went on a only slightly perverted, but plenty of fun filled, field trip to Woodland Park Zoo with my lovely girl. She’d never been before so I was extra pleased that we’d planned out trip for a cool overcast day mid-week. The place was at about 10% capacity but the animals were all kinds of active. A couple of critters, like the Hippos and the vampire bats, put on more of a show then I have ever seen from them and I usually visit the zoo a few times a year. Alas, its the wrong time of year for excessive randy behavior, so no critter on critter action this time around. Unless you count all the unrepentant smoochin done by two frisky redheads.

Thursday, Servant was back, this time with his buddy John and a video camera. Before you get too excited, no, we didn’t make any porn…well not as I define it at least. What we did create was a test drive of a new educational program/format. In this segment I give a quick hands-on, as in hands, and toys, on Servant’s ass, tutorial of “How to Spank”. I’m very pleased with the end results especially since it was our first time doing something like this, all content was un-scripted and we only did one take. Take a look and let me know what ya think:

http://picasaweb.google.com/doubleAA666/DansVideoStuff?feat=email#5382933550999864274

Again this was me trying to teach, as well as trying to keep things in the PG range, so I wasn’t nearly as…um…gropie as I would usually be while smackin someone around. Still it gives a nice look into my silly play style for those of you who have been curious…but haven’t worked up the cojones to come see for yourself.

Friday, more time with my girl, this time with the addition of a bunch of my neighbors and whole bunch of alcohol. One of my buddies is about to jump ship for Oregon so I’ve been trying to sneak in some extra time with him. Much booze-fueled shenanigans ensued but we all managed to keep our clothes on…I think…

Saturday, hang-over reperations, breakfast involving home-made zuchinni bread(yes the Mistress knows how to cook), shower which led to a couple hours of hawt lesbian sex, and then before we knew it, it was time to prep for that evening’s party. The costume crew at the CSPC had decided to ride on the success of the last Steampunk party by taking over the entire, three building, space. In case you have yet to tap into the whole Steampunk thang, its basically Victoriana meets electric toys, lots of goggles and gadgets, corsets and khaki. The party was well attended and gave me the chance to catch up with some play-party pals…as well as watch a couple of them get throughly zapped.

More on this to come as the CSPC will be hosting a huge Steampunk Ball, December 5th at the Museum of History and Industry in Seattle. It’s sure to be a very glamourous evening, but not in a stuffy SAM fundraiser sort of way. Not sure if there will be full on play at the event(though I’m pretty certain there will be the afore mentioned electric toys”on display”) since unlike parties at the Center, this shindig will involve booze. There’s even talk of an absinth bar. Tickets just went on sale and I figured folks would appreciate plenty of notice so they can start working on their costumes. So here it is!

http://www.steampunkexhibitionball.com/

That’s all for now as I’ve got some dirty talk to write

As often happens with the approach of Fall my life seems to be bursting lately with fun opportunities and fabulous people.

You know how you have those things that you’re interested in…but the timing never seems to work out. Or you’ve got a great idea and lack the motivation or man power to make it happen. Two big things that I’ve been middling too seriously interested in adding to my world have been doing double domination sessions and expanding my media foot print on the web and else where.

What has mostly held me back has been the same thing in both cases. I hadn’t yet met the right people to inspire me to chart new territory.

I’ve been so very happy with my work, as it stands, for years now. But since the universe has seen fit to gift me with a few truly inspiring new friends I’ve decided that it’s time to shake things up a bit.

As mentioned in my last post I’ve updated the FAQ page of my site to reflect some new offerings. I am now available for sessions with my girlfriend, Miss Scarlet, as well as with my lover, Servant aka The Major. Additionally, though I’m not sure as of yet how well received it will be, I’m offering “just talk” sessions.

The former, again something that lacked some peeps with the right energy and skill set to make worth while. Half the fun of playing with those two will just be getting an excuse to have more sexy time with them. Goddess help the brave souls that walk into that energy storm.

The latter is something that I’ve been meaning to do for awhile. As most folks who have seen me know, I like to spend a good deal of time before any play begins, talking with my clients. How and when did they first know they were kinky? How long have they been exploring? Have they ever talked with their primary partners about their kinks? If so, did it go well? If not, would they like some suggestions on how to do so as well as some insight into why it’d be worth the risk? There’s something about the setting and circumstance that gets people to share things they very well may have never told another soul. Even some experienced players have never had anyone ask for their back story before. In addition to adding wonderful depth to the play that usually follows, I have seen these conversations address deeply held insecurities and fears. I have seen them inspire people to fight for the type of out-in-the-open lives they’ve fantasized about for years.

So maybe these bits of unexpected therapy can only occur as they stand, a surprising bonus to a sexy good time. But knowing how hard it is for folks to brooch these topics, even with a licensed therapist or a loving partner, I think the world has room for this type of judgement-free service. And, as I state in the offerings description, “I may not have all the answers…but I certainly have a unique perspective”.

As to the other new endeavor, endeavors actually, they are about 50% “why the hell not” and 50% “we may not save the world but we can certainly have some fun trying”. So upcoming, and hopefully entertaining, activities will include: a beautifully blasphemous photo shoot with me and Miss Scarlet as a couple of very naughty nuns; some educational, erotic and hopelessly irreverent video shoots of me doing some BDSM how-tos and product testing with Servant as my co-host and hapless victim; and more naughty MP3 files then you can shake a dick at(though I encourage you to try).

The scary part is that this is probably only the beginning.

Speaking of, I’ve already gotten started on the MP3 thang. You can listen to a sample as well as purchase another clip here:

http://www.ipervert.net/artists/mistress-katherine-1

You can also listen to another piece as part of Servant’s sick and twisted podcast “The Closeted Man’s Happy Half Hour”. Be warned that the program may start right up as soon as the page loads, depending on your computer’s settings.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/TV666/2009/09/11/Your-Wife-Mistress-Katherine-on-The-Happy-Half-Hour

You should also be warned, again, that the content is all pretty heavy on the humiliation side. If that sort of thing squigs you either don’t listen…or test your boundaries a bit by giving a listen but hovering your mouse over the pause button…if that hand ends up busy…I guess you’ve passed that test.

My style of play doesn’t usually stray down this particular perverted path, which is of course all part of the fun. In addition to the playful nature of those up coming video-casts, I’m working on some clips that are more in keeping with my loving, teasing, silly and sexy type of domination that appears to be so under-represented in media, but is so easy to find within the BDSM community. I often wonder if people could see more real, accessible folks with a sense of humor getting their kink on, as opposed to the cold, screeching Dommie McDomersons that seem to saturate the media, maybe they’d feel more comfortable letting their own freak flags fly.

So yeah, lots of new stuff, and only time will tell what the market will allow. Guess it’s a good thing that doing all of the above will be just as freaking awesome as any of it succeeding.

The week in review

Things just got a whole lot scarier…

GAH!!!!

Finally…

Tentacle Drive-by

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