Got a question? It’s probably answered here. Please take a look at the following list before contacting me. If you still can’t find the answers you seek, my email address can be found on the Contact Page.
What Are My Session Options?
Conversation and Coaching – 120/hr
Sometimes what you need, first and foremost, is someone to talk to. But perhaps what you’d like to talk about isn’t something you feel comfortable discussing with anyone found in your existing social circle. Maybe you need the assistance of someone with a unique area of expertise, a perverts perspective?
In addition to being a well respected Professional Dominatrix for the last 20 years, I’m also a Relationship Coach, who not so surprisingly, specializes in Kink, BDSM, and Fetish. I’m an excellent person to work with when you’re looking for answers and information regarding your (or your partner’s) kinks. When you need general advice and insight into your current relationship/sex life (or current frustrating lack there of) that incorporates all parts of your sexual identity. And of course I’m an excellent educator if you’re looking for some high quality, individualized instruction on how to expand your BDSM skill set.
Phone, video, or in-person options available. You can find more information regarding my coaching services over at TheKinkyCoach.com
Distance Domination – 100 per half hour
Wanna get naughty but a little kink blocked by current conditions? I have a sexy socially distanced solution for you…As much as I love getting my greedy hands all over my in-person playmates, I also find instructing folks to “take themselves in hand” to be very…stimulating. Whether its whispering what I’d love to do to you, making you do all manner of nasty things to yourself, or sharing a graphic true story about all my sexy adventures, our talk time is sure to titillate.
If you are unsure which of the above two options is most appropriate for the type of talk you’d like to have, you can find more information in this blog post.
One hour In-Person Domination Session – 350*
Are you ready to stand in my glorious presence, to feel my eyes, my hands, my need, on you? Enjoy one full luscious hour of erotic exploration, bookended with just a few minutes before and after to check in and tidy up.
Ninety Minutes In-Person Domination Session – 500*
Time does fly when you’re having all the sexy fun. This is the ideal option if you want to indulge in a few more activities or just focus on your favorites at a more leisurely pace.
Two Hour In-Person Domination Session – 600*
For the true connoisseur. Whether driven by a desire to explore numerous activities, or a deep need to escape the ordinary for longer, a full two hour playdate is again an option. Sessions lasting longer than two hours are an option on a case by case basis.
In-Person Coaching and Conversation add-on – +50
Would you like more time at the start of your In-Person Domination Session to discuss your interests or sound out some thoughts with an exceedingly experienced listener? Perhaps you’d prefer a more relaxed and social start to our engagement. Simply request this add-on option for 30 minutes of high quality hang time.
Couple Domination Session – +100*
Trying to get some kink into your relationship? Maybe its already there but you’re starting to run out of ideas? Want some guidance on how to take on, or switch, roles in an established dynamic? Maybe you’d both just like the thrill of another person’s energy, eyes, and appetite? I love the fun and discovery of playing with couples. I will insist on communicating with all parties involved while booking this option.
When are you available?
I see people seven days a week, but my availability fluctuates. The earliest appointment I will schedule is 11am the latest 8pm. However I do not offer same day scheduling for any option aside from phone sessions for current coaching clients in crisis. As such, you are strongly encouraged to plan well ahead. Also its classy.
I don’t have any/much experience. Is that okay?
Absolutely. Many of the folks I play with are new to BDSM. We all have to start somewhere. So why not get things off to a great start by playing with an expert! If you’re still unsure, consider booking a phone or video coaching session to talk things out, ask your questions, and get a feel for what it’d be like to explore this wonderful kinky world with me as your guide.
Am I too young? Am I too old?
Given my own age, I prefer to play with people who are in their thirties and older. Seeing people in their twenties isn’t off the table, its a decision made on a case by case basis which hinges heavily on how well you follow instructions. But thats honestly true for everyone. And I have always enjoyed the company of individuals with as much, as well as considerably more, mileage than myself. As far as I’m concerned, if the motor is still running, I’m quite happy to take the wheel and drive.
Do you work with all gender identities?
Absolutely. I identify as a pervy, pansexual, polyamorous, cis-women (she/her) and I feel very privileged to have worked with many beautiful humans from a variety of points on the gender spectrum. But if you have any anxiousness about my appropriateness given your identity you are welcome to set up an initial 30 minute phone or video coaching session at the add-on rate above to feel each other out first. This option is exclusively for female, trans, and non-binary identified individuals.
What about duos?
I love a good gang-up, the intensity of two tormentors against one grateful victim. A few of my favorite ladies are listed on my Links page but all options are better discussed in person. Unless you are already an established client of the sexy human you’d like me to duo with, and they’re someone I already know (which is conveniently a lot of folks in town), we’ll need to have a playdate ourselves to establish our dynamic first.
Do you offer outcall?
I’m afraid not at this time, but I encourage folks who can’t visit me in my space to consider my Distance Domination option.
What Best Practices precautions are you taking?
I am fully vaccinated and typically get boosted as soon as the next round is available. I see smart, empathetic people and smart, empathetic people get vaccinated, but I’m no longer requiring proof of vaccination. I do not require masks in session but you are welcome to remain masked, as well as request that I wear one, if it would make you more comfortable. I am also happy to take a home antigen test immediately before our appointment. If at any point I test positive for Covid, and/or have symptoms, I will email as much to anyone I’ve seen in the pervious 7 days.
What kind of gifts do you appreciate?
Additional gifts are never expected but who doesn’t like presents. So if generosity is one of your kinks, you can find directions to my wishlist on my Links Page. A few spontaneous options that can be readily found in my neighborhood: Wine or weed edibles (introduce me to one of your favorites), whiskey (I prefer Irish), fresh flowers or a small plant (especially nice on rainy days).
Tipping is also a charming demonstration of gratitude and always welcome.
How tall are you?
I am 5’2″ with a deceptively strong classic curvy hourglass figure. Basically, T & A for days and my personality far exceeds the confines of my vertically conservative frame.
What size shoe do you wear?
I wear a size 8 1/2 shoe and a size 9 boot, though if I’m indoors, I’m probably barefoot. My feet are extremely sensitive, a major erogenous zone, and they love teasing the bejeebus out of foot fetishist and other charmingly attentive friends.
How many years experience do you have?
So very many…I was clearly kinky from the get go but I started intentionally exploring BDSM in the mid 90’s, first within my relationships and eventually as part of the local PNW BDSM community. I’ve been playing, and preaching the pervy gospel, professionally since 2003.
Do you ever travel?
I’m not the type to go on tours, but I do take vacations to places outside Seattle from time to time. It certainly doesn’t hurt to inquire if I have plans to visit your town. If you would like to request I travel to you, I’m open to it on a case by case basis so you’re welcome to email a proposal. But even better would be to schedule some distance domination to get to know each other first.
May I use you as a reference?
I am happy to provide references for former playmates as long as it has been no more than a year since we last saw each other. If you would like to use me as a reference to see another provider, please contact me first with the date that I last saw you and a few unique things about yourself to help refresh my memory – like where you are from, what type of work you do, anything special you shared about yourself (not what turns you on or what we did unless it was a very unusual fetish). I’m much better at faces than names so you are always welcome to include a photo.
May I be your boyfriend, personal submissive, house-boy, pet, toy, sissy, slut, stud, stunt dick…?
I always strive to be emotionally available to my playmates, as the nature of our games involves a lot of vulnerability and trust. And naturally, over time, romantic feelings on both sides may develop. However I don’t “date” my clients…or people I’ve never met who think a professional website is a secret personal ad just for them. But I’d be happy to set up a coaching session to discuss why you are sabotaging your claimed romantic goals by contacting, and likely offending, openly unattainable women.