Got a question? It’s probably answered here. Please take a look at the following list before contacting me. If you still can’t find the answers you seek, my email address can be found on the Contact Page.
What Are My Session Options?
Conversation and Coaching – 80/hr
Feeling trepidatious about taking the next step or want to have a meet and greet before committing to playtime? In addition to all the lovely options listed here I am also a Sex and Relationship Coach. Coaching is a great thing to consider if you are looking for answers and information regarding your kinks, want a safe sounding board to discuss relationship issues, are looking to expand your BDSM and/or dating skill set, or just generally need someone to talk to about sex. You can find more information regarding those services over at my coaching website:TheKinkyCoach.com.
Distance Domination – 150/hr
Love all the sexy things I talk about here but too far away to meet in-person? Been “inspired” by my images for years but heartbroken over the distance that divides us? Seen me before and desperately desiring to be under my control again, if only you could fit it in your busy schedule? At long last I have a solution for you! As much as I love getting my hands on a willing playmate, I also find instructing folks to “take themselves in hand” to be very…stimulating. Whether its reminiscing over what we did last, what you’d love to have me do to you, or hearing about what I just did to my slutty personal playmates, our talk time is sure to titillate.
If you won’t be seeing me in person and are unsure which of the above two options best suits your needs, you can find more information in this blog post.
Standard Session – 250*
Are you ready to play? For a Standard Session you should block out a window of two hours from the time you arrive till when you need to be walking out the door on the way to your next engagement. This will allow us time for pre-session conversation, a solid hour of playtime, as well as after-care and clean-up. I am not a clock watcher and prefer that my guests can be just as casual. That said, if you would like to have more than an hour of playtime please mention this when you schedule your appointment by requesting an Extended Session and adjusting the tribute accordingly.
Extended Session – 350* or 450*
Want a bit more time to play? Just add a half hour or an hour respectively. Longer play than two hours is an option for repeat playmates or very experienced players who are willing to put down a deposit.
The Touch-up – 200*
For returning playmates without much time to play. One hour, door to door. An abbreviated catch-up chat to cover the basics of that day’s interests followed by an express lane 30 minute session with just enough time after to catch your breath, clean-up, and then off you go. Only an option for individuals that I have seen within the last six months.
Couple Session – 450*
Trying to bring some kink into your relationship? Maybe its already there but you’re starting to run out of ideas? Want some guidance and tutoring on how to switch roles in an established relationship? Or maybe you’d both just like the thrill of a third person’s energy, eyes, and appetite? I love the challenge and discovery of playing with couples. I insist on speaking with all parties involved (no “surprise” sessions) to book this option. In male/female relationships, please be sure to have the female identified partner make the initial phone call. Couple Sessions typically last two and a half hours.
Duo Session – varies by provider
Sometimes another pair of hands, eyes, and the additional appetite of an extra playmate are just what the doctor ordered. If you are a greedy little submissive that needs more attention than one person can provide, or are interested in activities that are outside of my offerings, consider inquiring about having someone join us. There are a number of ladies that I enjoy spending time with, even when on one is naked, and I get along well with most of the other Dommes in town. If you’re curious, just ask.
Duo Session with a Male Top
Do you have fantasies involving forced bi-sexuality, cuckolding, or getting toped by a couple? Boy do I have some sexy options for you. Alas, this is only a session option for old friends that I have seen at least once before. And I only discuss this option in-person so emailing to ask about it, especially if I don’t know you, is a good way to get blacklisted.
I don’t have any/much experience. Is that okay?
Absolutely! Many of the folks I play with are new to BDSM or have only played a few times. And that’s totally natural because we all have to start somewhere. So why not get things off to a good start by playing with someone who knows what she’s doing, obviously enjoys it, and won’t judge you for wanting to explore your own kinky side. You are also welcome to start off with a Coaching Session to chat about your interests if you’d rather meet me without the added anxiety of what comes next.
Am I too young? Am I too old?
Given my own age, I prefer to play with people who are in their thirties or older. But seeing people in their twenties isn’t a hard limit, just decided on a case by case basis. And I have always enjoyed the company of individuals with more mileage than myself. If the motor is still running, I’m happy to drive.
Do you play with women and/or transgender individuals?
Absolutely. I am pansexual and enjoy playing with people on any point of the gender spectrum.
Do you offer outcall?
Yes…selectively. Be sure to mention your interest in this option when you contact me. Travel fees may apply.
Can I give you a gift in addition to the tribute?
Not something that is expected, but is always appreciated. If you are so inclined I’ve listed a few options on my Links Page. Last minute gift purchases of wine (I prefer mostly domestic reds), whiskey (prefer Irish), and flowers (please avoid anything strongly scented…and pink) are also welcome and readily found in my neighborhood.
How tall are you?
Physically I am 5’2″ with a curvy but athletic figure. Personality wise I’m 6’2″ and built like Xena the Warrior Princess.
What size shoe do you wear?
I wear a size 8 1/2 shoe and a size 9 boot. My feet are one of my favorite erogenous zones and they LOVE to be worshipped.
How many years experience do you have?
I started actively exploring BDSM in the early 90’s. I’ve been playing professionally since 2003.
Do you ever travel?
Typically when I head out of town…its usually out to nature for camping or some place special for a big social event. neither of which are very conducive to sessioning. So at this time I’d only be open to planning to play with someone I already have an established dynamic with as it would likely involve adding an extra day, and bringing extra gear, to a planned excursion.
Do you require references?
I have recently changed my policy to requiring references and/or identity verification for all new in-person playmates. you can find more information on this on the Contact Page.
May I use you as a reference?
I am happy to provide references for former playmates as long as it has been no more than a year since we last saw each other. If you would like to use me as a reference to see another provider, please contact me first with the date/s that I last saw you and a few unique things about yourself to help refresh my memory – like where you are from, what type of work you do, anything special you shared about yourself (not what turns you on or what we did unless it was a very unusual fetish). And I’m much better at faces than names so you are always welcome to include a photo.
May I be your personal submissive, pet, sissy, slut, toy, house-boy…?
I always strive to be emotionally available to my playmates, as the nature of our games involves a lot of vulnerability and trust. And naturally, over time, romantic feelings on both sides may develop. However I don’t “date” the people I meet thru my website and am also VERY selective with folks I meet off it. If what you are searching for is a kinky partner to play with for free you’d best start by understanding all relationships involve a transactional component and its best to be honest about what you are really willing and able to give for what you hope to get. I’m happy to give you plenty of advice and insight in how to go about that during a Coaching Session.