This has been quite the mammary laden weekend. No complaints but it is kinda funny just how girl centric my world has been since Friday. And the fun continues today!
Friday was a much anticipated date with a total hottie and universal bad-ass in the kink/sex-positive community. I’ve been after some one-on-one time with this particular very popular bird for over a year now. Alas, both of us are very busy girls. But we finally found ourselves across a table from each other and then later cosying up on my couch. Many amazing personal stories were shared as well as interests…and a plan has been hatched to play together in the very near future.
I’m trying to take things a little slower given the suddenly more close-knit nature of my stomping grounds. I abhor drama and am willing to post-pone bliss if it helps avoid unnecessary stress on the folks in my world. This particular playmate is as likely to create relationship drama as Mother Teresa but it never hurts to work on ones dating skills. Still, I’m pretty squirmy in my seat to get my hands(and mouth…and teeth…and toys) on her again.
Last night was much more mellow. A simple night in with a couple of gal pals. One of whom was not so *heart* ovaries and I was a bit hung-over from the previous night so we were far from the boisterous babes we usually are when we’re all in the same room together. But their company, a simple pot-luck meal and a weird italian horror movie was exactly what I was in the mood for.
Today is the next Fem Domme Tea at the CSPC(see blog post a couple ones back). I’m not sure how many of the ladies from my own crew will be there this time. But as I posted after the last tea, my one regret was that I didn’t get a chance to chat up ALL of the amazing women present. So being posse free won’t dilute my fun and might help me remedy that complaint.
It will be very interesting to see how things play out this time around. The event is still in its infancy and I know of at least a couple of concerns/critiques people have had so far. First that, honoring the servant nature of the males present, it was hard for some to discover the play interests of our submissives. I think most of the ladies, myself included, liked the idea of getting some play in but not all the boys there were necessarily masochistic. The same can be said for more overtly sexual activity. It’d be nice to have the info readily available, possibly posted somewhere in the space.
I think the above is a relatively minor thing, the other complaint I heard might shift the energy considerably. The woman in charge is clearly of the female top/male bottom mentality, as her website clearly shows:
http://www.she-makes-the-rules.com/
But some of us ladies like to play with girls too. So far the event announcements have only been a call to arms for dominant women and submissive men. When asked, the organizer had replied that female submissives were welcome to join the fun, but they would need to be aware of, and comfortable with, working along side mostly males, who’ll be mostly nakid.
It will be interesting to see if we have any female servers this time and if it changes the energy and dynamic of the event in any un-forseen ways. Will the girls get preferential treatment. Will the boys feel threatened, get competitive, or try to play protector? There seemed to be the beginnings of the “common bond” thing among the men. Will having a nakid girl in their midst destroy that?
What ever happens, I promise a full report upon my return. And if you just can’t wait that long…it might not be too late to join the fun yourself…
*Artwork from the incredibly sexy/twisted mind of Michael Manning which can be found here:
http://www.thespidergarden.net/
and here:
http://www.obsessionart.com/find.asp?manufacturer_id=Michael_Manning
