Feb 082008

Despite a fairly lengthy and informative list on my website, a very common question I get is “What games do you like to play?”

This might go against the opinion some of you boys have about other members of your team but most guys REALLY like to know that I’m having as much fun as they are. Hence their desire to play games that I actively enjoy as well.

Here’s the thing. If I don’t like it. I won’t do it. And yes, I know its some what loopy logic, but if it’s happening in my playroom the reverse is true as well. If it’s an activity that I’m willing to engage in with you I’m going to be having just as much fun(if not more) as you are.

Another thing that seems to come up, though thank Goddess not very often, is a playmate thinking they have to play a certain game, usually one involving intense sensation play, to impress me. I know some Dominants cope the “We’ll do what I want and you’ll like it” attitude. But outside of agreed upon consensual non-consent scenes, that isn’t a game I enjoy.

Wanna know how to impress me?

Show up.

Honest and for truly, that’s really all it takes. Coming to see a woman like myself, entrusting your body and mind to the care of another, taking that HUGE leap of faith, in my book equals bad-ass. Anything that happens after you walk through my door is a bonus for both of us. But you’ll never need to do more then that to prove to me you’ve got a pair.

There are many activities that I enjoy both in the shallow and deep end of the pool. But unlike folks who just play in their private life, I get to enjoy BDSM with lots of different playmates and with a frequency that is hard to match for even the most determined life-styler. As a result I don’t need to get all my kinks met by just one playmate.

Don’t like flogging, or feminization or CBT…well that’s okay because I’m probably going to get a chance to play those games before the week is out.

So the question you should really be asking yourself is “What games do I like to play?”

This is a point I’ve been wanting to make for awhile now and I felt that it would be a good one to address before the rest of what I wanted to post about. Which is extreme CBT, also known as edge play.

A new addition to my harem of playmates very much enjoys that dark, dangerous, deep end of the pool. And as he has proven himself to be a strong swimmer, I’ve been happy to splash around there with him. We’ll call him Bull(why will become clear soon). Bull has been playing these types of games for a long time and with a number of different Dominants. In my experience, I would have to say he is an extreme masochist, especially when it comes to his boy bits. A few of you who have seen me lately might have heard me mention him in reference to the gift he brought me for our first session. He brought me a soldering gun. Yes, the little device you use to melt metal. At his request, I attacked his family jewels with it.

Very. Intense. Scene.

But I still giggled like a 5 year old on a sugar high the entire time.

Well the other day we tried out one new to me game and one new to us both toy. If you are at all squeamish and/or don’t want to see photos of another man’s junk do NOT click the link:

The device lying against his thigh is a castration device designed for livestock. You put these green plastic bands, that start out the size of a Cheerio, onto the pegs at the top and brace it open. Then you insert a bit of rope and, for our purposes, one testicle. Then you just release the device, pull the band free of the pegs and

Viola! The balls are pulled so taunt that the slightest brush or flick of a finger feels like you’ve been kicked. And to get them off the bands have to be cut. So that means the maniacally laughing redhead is gonna be down by your bits with a blade. WEEEEEEE! Much fun! Especially when the blood comes surging back to the boys.

Next up more sharp pointy objects!

This was my very first piercing scene which is one of the reasons that a) I took pictures and b) I’m posting them. Can you hear the proudness? Everything went exceedingly well thanks in no small part to much advice from my pin-cushion pal Mok, the lovely and creative Mistress Bella Morte and Master D with his super ninja needle skills.

I will want to do this again. even though I recognize that most folks who are into play piercing find it endorphin inducing enough without having their pinned bits then smacked around and zapped repeatedly with a violet wand.

It was a very good day.

But again, if you’re still reading this and are the type that needs to make sure your feet can always reach the bottom of the pool, fear not. I’ve had just as much fun with scenes where the scariest thing to happen was my playmate finding out that, no, they didn’t out-grow being ticklish and they like the feel of their legs encased in black silk stockings.

Ultimately it isn’t about which games we play…

it’s about how much fun it is just to play a game.

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