MistressKatheringContactHow to reach me:

When you have read thru this charming website and rightly decided that I am the perfect Domme for you, my preferred first method of contact is by email. Please send me a brief introduction, which should include your full name, your phone number (which I would only call/text with permission), your age, a very general statement of your interests, the preferred dates and times that you hope to see me, and the following identity verification/references information.

For my safety, and yours, all new Coaching and Domination clients must complete this simple screening protocol. Us kinky people do love our protocol. This can be done thru discrete identity verification or with two verifiable provider references. I thoroughly enjoy seeing newbies, so don’t feel discouraged if you don’t have references. How cooperative and forthcoming you are with my verification process will make all the difference. I can not discuss activities or exact scheduling options until this step is completed.

For identity verification you may use: your mostly public social media account/s(Facebook, Twitter, Instagram); a mostly unlocked business networking profile(LinkedIn); a personal or professional website; a company website where you are pictured and listed by name; a company directory or switchboard where you are listed by name with a work phone number I can reach you at(I’ll pretend to be your dentist office). Please provide direct links to these pages or websites, not just the name they are under.

If supplying references for screening, please include: the provider’s name, email address, and a link to their website; the date/s you last saw them (ideally within the last year); the contact information and identification you used with them (name, email, phone number); something unique about yourself that they might remember. The latter is more likely to be related to personal things like where you work, what kind of work you do, where you’re from, favorite hobbies, or interesting personal experiences/accomplishments. Unfortunately, just saying what your kinks are is unlikely to help unless your kinks are notably unique and telling me what you did with them is indiscreet.

I do not require screening for phone/video Coaching or Distance Domination sessions. Full payment is required when you make your appointment to hold your reservation.


If you have not heard back from me in three days, but were polite and respectful in your message, then your email or my response to it, may have gone awry so please try again. Titling your email “Session Request” or “New Client Introduction”, reduces its chance of being accidentally deleted as spam.

If you have questions that aren’t addressed on this site you are welcome to email me. But you never get a second chance to make a first impression so do us both the courtesy of reading my site to see if any questions you may have are indeed answered here first.

When are you available?:

I see people seven days a week, but my availability fluctuates. The earliest appointment I will schedule is 11am the latest 8pm. I am a low volume provider and some weeks are busier than others. I strongly recommend allowing yourself the additional pleasure of anticipation by planing your session as far in advance as your schedule safely allows. This is especially advisable if you will only be in town briefly, lack a flexible schedule, and/or would like to see me on a weekend. If it will be your first time seeing me, one month is the furthest in advance I will book without a deposit.

I do not offer same day scheduling for in-perosn appointments. I can occasionally accommodate same day appointments for phone/video coaching or distance domination.

What to expect the day of your appointment:

We will set a time a few hours before your appointment to touch base by either text or email and I will let you know exactly where you will be going (if meeting in-person). When you arrive, expect to have time to relax and decompress from the mundane world. All my sessions, whether Coaching or Domination, are planned to allow plenty of time for us to get to know each other and for both of us to ask, and answer, the questions that will ensure the most fun is had by all. Please plan to be sober, well-rested, well-groomed, properly fed and hydrated, and ready to explore.

What if I need to cancel?

I understand that plans change and sometimes we don’t get as much warning as we’d like. Like most small businesses, same day cancellations are very costly and inconvenient. Please give me as much notice as possible if you will not be able to keep your appointment. And if you think you might be coming down with something or may have a scheduling conflict, but still want to stay optimistic, a quick warning call/email is also much appreciated. Depending on how our interactions have gone leading up to your cancellation I may be open to rescheduling with you even if you have to cancel same day (especially if you sent that “heads-up” call/email earlier). If I have any doubts as to your reliability I may require a deposit of half the session tribute to reschedule with you. As most businesses require an appointment/reservation be paid in full if you cancel with less than 24hrs notice I feel this is extremely reasonable. For individuals that can’t be bothered to let me know they won’t be able to keep their appointment…there is the black list. And no one gets off the black list.



*All tribute is for my time and/or a “fantasy show” only. No offer of any other service or activity is to be implied, insinuated or otherwise agreed upon. Any attempt to connect the tribute to an illegal act will result in immediate termination of communication. All interaction beyond a “fantasy show” is between two or more consenting adults and has nothing to do with any financial arrangement. By contacting me, you are agreeing to the above terms.

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