Got a question?
It’s probably answered here. Please take a look at the following list before contacting me. If you still can’t find the answers you seek, my email address can be found on the Scheduling Page.
When are you available?
I see people seven days a week, the earliest I will schedule is 11am the latest 8pm. I do not offer same day scheduling and recommend at least 2 days notice for in-person plans. I can sometimes accommodate phone and video coaching appointments with 24 hours notice.
I don’t have any/much experience. Is that okay?
Absolutely. I’ve been a “first time” for many brave souls in the last two decades. A little nervousness is normal and can be sexy, but anxiety is not a great aphrodisiac. Consider booking a phone or video coaching session to talk things out, ask your questions, and get a feel for what it’d be like to explore this wonderful kinky world with me as your guide.
Am I too young? Am I too old?
I’m happy to offer coaching to anyone over the age of 20. However I only offer in-person domination to folks over 30. And as I’m certainly not putting an age cap on my own kinky explorations my doors are open to people with notable more millage then myself.
Do you work with all gender identities?
Absolutely. I identify as a pervy, pansexual, polyamorous, cis-women (she/her) and I feel very privileged to have worked with many beautiful humans from a variety of points on the gender spectrum.
What about duos?
I love a good gang-up, the intensity of two tormentors against one grateful victim. A few of my favorite ladies are listed on my Links page but all options are better discussed in person. Unless you are already an established client of the sexy human you’d like me to duo with, and they’re someone I already know (which is conveniently a lot of folks in town), we’ll need to have a playdate ourselves to establish our dynamic first.
Where are you located and what is your space like?
I’ve recently moved but I’m still in Seattle. I now have two beautiful dungeon spaces to play in, full of specialized furnishings like spanking benches, suspension scaffolding, CBT chairs, and St Andrews crosses. They also has full shower facilities, nice solid soundproof walls, and plenty of parking.
Do you offer outcall?
Only an option for familiar friends. If you are someone who I have seen before, you’re welcome to ask.
What Best Practices precautions are you taking?
I am fully vaccinated and typically get boosted as soon as the next round is available. I see smart, empathetic people and smart, empathetic people get vaccinated, but I’m no longer requiring proof of vaccination. I do not require masks in session but you are welcome to remain masked, as well as request that I wear one, if it would make you more comfortable. I am also happy to take a home test immediately before our appointment. If at any point I test positive for Covid, and/or have symptoms, I will email as much to anyone I’ve seen in the pervious 7 days.
What kind of gifts do you appreciate?
Additional gifts are never expected but who doesn’t like presents. So if generosity is one of your kinks, you can find directions to my wishlist on my Links Page. Tipping is also a charming demonstration of gratitude and always welcome.
How tall are you?
I am 5’2″ with a deceptively strong classic curvy hourglass figure. Basically, T & A for days and my personality far exceeds the confines of my vertically conservative frame.
What size shoe do you wear?
I wear a size 8 1/2 shoe and a size 9 boot, though if I’m indoors, I’m probably barefoot. My feet are extremely sensitive, a major erogenous zone, and they love teasing the bejeebus out of foot fetishist and other charmingly attentive friends.
How many years experience do you have?
So very many…I was clearly kinky from the get go but I started intentionally exploring BDSM in the mid 90’s, first within my relationships and eventually as part of the local PNW BDSM community. I’ve been playing, and preaching the pervy gospel, professionally since 2003.
Do you ever travel?
I’m not the type to go on tours, but I do take vacations to places outside Seattle from time to time. It certainly doesn’t hurt to inquire if I have plans to visit your town. If you would like to request I travel to you, I’m open to it on a case by case basis so you’re welcome to email a proposal. But even better would be to schedule some distance domination to get to know each other first.
May I use you as a reference?
I am happy to provide references for former playmates as long as it has been no more than a year since we last saw each other. If you would like to use me as a reference to see another provider, please contact me first with the date that I last saw you and a few unique things about yourself to help refresh my memory – like where you are from, what type of work you do, anything special you shared about yourself (not what turns you on or what we did unless it was a very unusual fetish). I’m much better at faces than names so you are always welcome to include a photo.
May I be your boyfriend, personal submissive, house-boy, pet, toy, sissy, slut, stud, stunt dick…?
I always strive to be emotionally available to my playmates, as the nature of our games involves a lot of vulnerability and trust. And naturally, over time, romantic feelings on both sides may develop. However I don’t “date” my clients…or people I’ve never met who think a professional website is a secret personal ad just for them. But I’d be happy to set up a coaching session to discuss why you are sabotaging your claimed romantic goals by contacting, and likely offending, openly unattainable women.