Kinky Coaching

Curious what Kinky Coaching might be able to do for you? Here’s some suggestions that are by no means the full extent of how I’d be happy to assist you in living a more fulfilling life.

Phone, video, or in-person options available.  Are you ready to get started?

Safe sounding board – Empathetic, nonjudgmental and discreet listening with professional grade perspective.

For over 20 years I have provided a safe place for people to share parts of themselves that they often didn’t feel comfortable sharing with anyone else in their lives. Again and again I have seen the catharsis and comfort that this can provide. To finally be heard and understood, to be seen. To know that you are not alone, that your identity, your interests, and your fantasies are shared by many and that there is nothing wrong with them or with you. 

Sex Positive Sex Education – Brushing up on the basics.

Not everyone had the privilege of medically accurate information about their sexuality when they were growing up. Even fewer of us received an education that covered all the bases and was free of bias. There is no shame in admitting that there are things you don’t know about your own body and sexuality let alone the bodies and sexualities of other people. It’s never too late to get a proper education. I love helping folks better understand their own amazing bodies and libidos as well as helping them understand how things work for the people they’d like to share their bodies with. 

To the next level – Taking an existing relationship into new sexual territory

Considering adding a little kink into your partnership? Unsure how to approach a partner with a new sexual interestPersonalized professional guidance can save you a lot of unnecessary awkwardness, injury, and grief. I can boost three decades worth of skills and cautionary tales, to help make your first forays the awesome experience you both want.

Opening up – Stepping outside of monogamy

Polyamory, swinging, and other forms of non-monogamy have become a lot more common and may have left you wondering if it’s the right fit for you. But its natural to be a bit trepidatious and full of questions at the start. How do you deal with jealousy? What are the rules for these types of things? Where do you even find people and how do you communicate your interest when you do? There is notable benefit to having an experienced guide to get you through the more challenging aspects of this type of expansion.

Expand your skill set – Add to your mental, and physical, toy bag.

Already have a bit of BDSM experience under your belt but looking to learn more? Get clear, unselfconscious tutorials and toy suggestions focused on your interests and scaled to your level of experience. Just hop on over to the Domination page for a list of my areas of expertise.

 

I am committed to providing safe place to share, learn, and explore for all gender identities, all sexual orientations, monogamous and non-monogamous relationship structures as well as for past and present members of the adult industries.

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