Are You Ready
A common question I get from new visitors is “What do YOU like to do?” Well if its listed here, its something that I love doing. That said, just because its on this list, does not mean that I expect (or desire) every person I play with to participate in all of these activities.
All of my sessions are tailored to your specific needs, interests, and limits. Additionally, I always provide safe words for my playmates (even for consensual non-consent scenes) so you can easily communicate if we’re playing a game that sounded fun…but isn’t feeling very fun any more. And I can easily accommodate requests to remain mark free.
Because what I love to do most is create a magical and memorable scene that is perfectly enjoyable for us both.
And on that note…here’s some very sexy ideas for our time together to mix and match from each kinky category as the mood takes us.
How shall I touch you? Tantalize you with my lovely long fingered hands, the brush of my flesh against yours? Tease you with feathers and fur, shock your skin with the bite of ice or the heat of hot wax. Shall I tickle or pinch, bite, slap, or scratch? Shall I stroke and squeeze and caress? And maybe I heighten your experience of all those exciting sensations by limiting your senses? Do you need to be blinded, deafened, silenced?
Options may encompass: Petting, Body Surfing, Touch and Tease, Tickle Torture, Erotic wax play, Ice, Feathers, Fur, Light to Intense Nipple, Cock, and Ball Torment, Clips, Clamps, Cupping, Prostate Play, Sensation Deprivation, Blindfolds, Headphones/Ear Plugs, Hoods, Gags.
There are all sorts of ways to demonstrate power just as there are numerous activities that help a submissive find the sexy and sacred vulnerability they crave: Collar and Lead, CFNM, Orgasm Control, Edging/Endurance Play, Chastity Devices/Training, Key Holding, Forced Masturbation, Strap-On Training/Worship, Verbal and/or Physical Humiliation, Objectification, Corporal Punishment, OTK Spankings, Smothering, Spitting, Face Slapping, Hair Pulling, Humblers, and Golden Showers.
Dominant and Submissive High Protocol Role Play which involves things like “Yes Ma’am/No Ma’am”, not speaking unless spoken to, avoiding eye contact, is something I enjoy very much, but like ALL the activities I enjoy, this one is also opt-in only. While I am always the Dominant when I play, not everyone I play with wants, needs, or is suited to a formal demonstration of that role. Emotional accessibility, sensuality, and a sense of humor are just as suited to how I manifest my side of the scene.
Has life provided you a few too many choices lately? How about we remove some of your options?
If you’re looking for an inescapable good time, our play may involve: Leather Cuffs, Rope, Chains, Collars, Spreader Bars, Stockades, Bondage Furniture (Spanking Bench, CBT chair, Bondage Bed), Predicament Bondage, and Mummification with Saran Wrap or Bondage Tape.
Elaborate decorative rope bondage, sometimes referred to as Shibari, is not one of my interests.
Sometimes we need to be someone else….someone who needs to be punished and used.
Scenarios could include: CFNM (Clothed Female/Naked Male), Slut/Bitch Training, Formal Domestic Slave/Service Training, Corporate (Boss, Secretary, HR) or Domestic (Aunt, Wife, Neighbor) Scenes, Puppy or Kitty Play, Crossdressing, Feminization/“Forced” Feminization, Sissification, and Gender Flipping, “Forced” Bi or Cuckolding Naughty Talk.
Anything that results in a nice, satisfying *SMACK* noise from hitting warm bare flesh. Could be elicited by: Paddles, Slappers, Floggers, Hairbrushes, and Spoons, of Leather, Rubber, Plastic and Wood, or just beautifully Bare Hands.
When your kink is more about an object than an activity. Objects available for adoration: Food play, Feet and/or Leg worship(LOVE LOVE LOVE this!!!), High Heeled Shoes and Boots, Stockings and Pantyhose, Corsets, Leather, Latex, or Lace.
The line that marks the dark and dangerous side of BDSM is a constantly moving border, within the community as well as within each individual player. The “scary place” typically encompasses: Needles/Play Piercing, Electric Devices(Prods, Zappers, Shock Collars, Violet Wands, TENS Units), Urethral Sounds, Catheters, Faux Castration Play, Whips, Caning, Ball Busting/Trampling, and Extreme Beat-Downs.
Activities I WILL NEVER ENGAGE IN, but list here to hopefully avoid people needing to ask: Prostitution, any activity that would cause permanent physical or emotional damage, breath play, red or roman showers, brown showers/scat play/full toilet play, enemas, infantilism/adult baby play, public play with people I haven’t privately scened with first, and I never switch.