Are You Ready
A common question I get from new visitors is “What do YOU like to do?” Well if its listed here, its something that I love doing. That said, just because its on this list, does not mean that I expect (or desire) every person I play with to participate in all of these activities.
All of my sessions are tailored to your specific needs, interests, and limits. Additionally, I always provide safe words for my playmates (even for consensual non-consent scenes) so you can easily communicate if we’re playing a game that was fun…but is starting to feel less so. And I can easily accommodate requests to remain mark free.
Because what I love to do most is create a magical and memorable scene that is perfectly enjoyable for us both.
And on that note…here’s some very sexy ideas for our time together to mix and match from each kinky category as the mood takes us.
How shall I touch you? Tantalize you with my lovely long fingered hands, the brush of my flesh against yours? Tease you with feathers and fur, shock your skin with the bite of ice or the heat of hot wax. Shall I tickle or pinch, bite, slap, or scratch? Shall I stroke and squeeze and caress? And maybe I heighten your experience of all those exciting sensations by limiting your senses? Do you need to be blinded, deafened, silenced?
Options may encompass: Petting, Body Surfing, Touch and Tease, Tickle Torture, Erotic wax play, Ice, Feathers, Fur, Light to Intense Nipple Torment, Light to Intense Cock and Ball Torment, Clips, Clamps, Cupping, Prostate Play, Sensation Deprivation, Blindfolds, Headphones/Ear Plugs, and Hoods.
There are all sorts of ways to demonstrate power just as there are numerous activities that help a submissive find that sexy and sacred vulnerability they crave: Collar and Lead, CFNM, Orgasm Control/JOI, Edging/Endurance Play, Chastity Devices/Training, Key Holding, Forced Masturbation, Strap-On Training/Worship*, Verbal and/or Physical Humiliation, Objectification, Corporal Punishment, OTK Spankings, Smothering, Face Slapping, Hair Pulling, Humblers, and Golden Showers*.
Dominant and Submissive High Protocol Role Play, which often involves things like strict adherence to honorifics, the submissive avoiding eye contact, not speaking unless spoken to and limiting replies to “Yes Ma’am/No Ma’am”, is a specific style of play dynamic popular with many Pervs. It is a play dynamic I enjoy a good deal, but it is by no means my default. And like the activities I enjoy, it is entirely opt-in only. While I am always The Dominant when I play, that role can take many forms, and often a less restrictive, more relaxed dynamic is in everyone’s best interest. This is often the case when folks are new to me and/or new to BDSM in general. But if ya dig it, just say so.
Sometimes its easier to let go, when you are actively prevented from going anywhere? If you’re looking for an inescapable good time, our play may involve: Leather Cuffs and Straps, Rope, Chains, Collars, Arm Binders, Spreader Bars, Stockades, Bondage Furniture (Spanking Bench, CBT chair, Bondage Bed), Predicament Bondage, Mummification with Saran Wrap or Bondage Tape, and Partial Suspensions.
Elaborate decorative rope bondage, sometimes referred to as Shibari, is not one of my interests. I also never use metal handcuffs because permanent nerve damage isn’t safe or sexy.
Sometimes we need to be someone else for awhile….someone who gets teased, tormented, and used perhaps. Sure to scratch that itch scenarios might include: CFNM (Clothed Female/Naked Male), Formal Domestic/Service Training, Cuckolding, Interrogation/Kidnapping, Corporate (Boss, Secretary, HR) or Domestic (Girlfriend, Wife, Aunt, Neighbor) Scenes, Puppy/Kitty/Pet Play, Classic Crossdressing, Forced Feminization, Sissification, Gender Flipping, Forced Bi, and Slut/Bitch Training.
My default demeanor, as might be apparent from the tone of this website, is one of aggressive and mischievous, molesty playfulness, that spikes equally easily from gleeful sadism to sensual soothing caresses, as the occasion calls for. Specifying a particular role-play preference is perfectly fine but not necessary for our fun.
When you crave more contact than a caress. All of these implements can be wielded to varying levels of intensity, from light erotic invigoration to sweet breathe-stealing agony. My arsenal includes numerous: Paddles, Slappers, Straps, Switches, Belts, Bats, Floggers, Crops, Clubs, and Cat ‘o Nine, of Leather, Rubber, Plastic and Wood. I also appreciate the creativity of pervert-ables like Hairbrushes, Rulers, and Spoons.
When your kink is more about an item than an activity. Objects available for adoration*: Food play, Feet and/or Leg worship, High Heeled Shoes and Boots, Stockings, Pantyhose, Corsets, Leather, Latex, or Lace. If you have a particular predilection not mentioned here, and its not listed under my hard limits, feel free to enquire about it’s availability.
The line that defines the dark and dangerous side of BDSM is a constantly moving bench mark, within the community as well as within each player’s personal limits. The Scary Place with me might encompass: Whips, Caning, Needles/Play Piercing, Electric Devices(Prods, Zappers, Shock Collars, Violet Wands, PSG/TENS Units), Urethral Sounds, Catheters, Faux Castration Play, Ball Busting/Trampling, and Extreme Beat-Downs.
*Temporary Hard Limits
Activities that I do enjoy but can’t safely engage in, in-person, for the time being: Long extended play sessions, golden showers involving someone’s face/mouth, spitting, gags, oral strap-on worship, oral foot/leg worship, basically anything that would involve removing or compromising the function of your face mask. Not happy about this, but none of these things are on my “to die for” list and they shouldn’t be on yours either. If we’re all smart now, hopefully we can get back to these games sooner rather than later.
Permanent Hard Limits
Activities I will NEVER include in any type of session, so don’t even bother asking: Access to my candy (dream a little dream, pervs), any activity that would cause permanent physical or emotional damage, breath play, red or roman showers, brown showers/scat play/full toilet play, enemas, infantilism/adult baby play, public play, and I never switch.